The Art of Contemplative Discussion
Guidelines for meaningful dialogue in our community.
Core Intention
This space exists for one purpose: to deepen understanding. Not to win arguments, not to convert anyone, not to prove ourselves right. When we engage here, we're participating in something ancient - the human tradition of philosophical dialogue.
Five Practices for Thoughtful Discussion
1. Steel-Man, Don't Straw-Man
Before responding to a position you disagree with, articulate it in its strongest possible form. If the other person wouldn't recognize your summary of their view, you haven't understood it yet.
2. Ask Before Assuming
When something seems wrong or confusing, ask a clarifying question before critiquing. Often what looks like disagreement is actually misunderstanding.
3. Embrace Uncertainty
"I wonder if..." is more valuable than "I know that..." The most interesting conversations happen when everyone acknowledges the limits of their knowledge.
4. Respond to the Strongest Point
When someone makes multiple arguments, engage with the strongest one, not the weakest. This builds understanding rather than scoring points.
5. Take Your Time
This isn't a chatroom. Let ideas sit. Come back tomorrow. The best responses often come after reflection, not in the heat of the moment.
Structure of Contemplations
Our discussions use a branching structure inspired by argument mapping:
- Support (↗) - Build on or strengthen the point above
- Question (?) - Challenge or probe the point above
- Parallel (↔) - Offer a different but related perspective
Each response is limited to 500 characters. This constraint encourages clarity and prevents walls of text. If you need more space, break your thought into multiple connected responses.
What We Don't Do
- No upvotes or downvotes - ideas stand on their own merit
- No real-time chat - slow, considered responses only
- No personal attacks - critique ideas, not people
- No evangelism - we explore, not convert